If you've done all that searching and reading I really hate to give you another link but... This asp.net formail control has been well received, so you might want to give it a try: http://www.asp.net/community/control-gallery/Item.aspx?i=1363
First of all Im losing hope on internet bizz. I got my masters in Multimedia internet production and did a lot of websites, but I never learned how to make a contact page where someone could fill it out and it gets sent to my email. I read (not kidding) a 4k page book and did all the steps and followed right along. I have plenty of skill in flash. I received a free index.php mail.php file and used it with my flash to send e-mails. with discountasp.net it does not work. I used the cdont like I learned in the book it does not work. I researched hundreds of websites and did everything I could think of, not even close. So, can anyone please help me make a mail.asp file sendit.asp file so I can receive e-mails on my site? I guess there is a lot of help on these forms, but after reading tons of info if you put into search you get little to no results and anything that is said is way past what Im trying to do it seems.
IF you prefer writing code in aspx code behind file you can chek one of my post : http://forums.asp.net/p/1186909/2041809.aspx# -Good Luck , Regards, Sunny